Hi Ms. Manley,
Thanks so much for stopping by and asking these questions. 🙂
I’m not quite sure I understand the 1st question about another procedure to follow if the message has been received by the recipient. Can you expound on that just a little bit more so I can make sure I answer it correctly for you.

Also, I’m not seeing where the “privacy mode” and the setting “specific” is located. When I go to Settings > Privacy I see where I can change my settings for Who Can Contact Me > Whose messages do I want filtered in my inbox – I have mine set for Basic Filtering which is recommended. What this means is that those that I am friends with on FB can message and I could receive message in my inbox from friends of my friends but most of the time it will go in the “Other” box.
The reason Facebook does this is to prevent behavior that others may find annoying or abusive. To ensure that someone got your message on FB that you may not be friends with, Facebook will allow you to pay for that service and when the message comes to the inbox, that person will not know that you paid to have your message sent to them.

If you can explain to me the steps you took for the setting where you can change it to “specific” I might be able to help you a little bit better.
Just comment back and I’ll help you out as best I can. 🙂

~ Audrey

I get a message that mentions that the messages will go to another folder
because I am not connected to the person on face book.
According to some of the settings that I have, one setting is
in the privacy mode. When I try to change the setting to “specific”
it goes back to the “only me” setting. Is it because of the changes made
upon signing up?

Brian,
Thank you so much for the kind words. I hope you were able to learn a little bit more about Facebook in that Tutorial. 🙂
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If you ever have any questions about Facebook or anything else please don’t hesitate to ask me. I am here to help you and make sure you don’t fall into any of the scams that are out there.
Blessings,
Audrey

P.S. Ireland is one of the countries I most want to visit. From what I understand I am a descendant of the Ross clan and we have a Ross Castle in Ireland. 🙂